January 31, 2010
A while ago, David read The Guinea Pig Diaries: My Life as an Experiment, which he found quite amusing. He also felt inspired to try our own set of experiments, so after setting some ground rules (nothing that puts all of the burden on the other person, etc), we started to come up with some ideas that might translate well to an experimental state. Our first attempt, in December, was to be better conversationalists: we had this whole plan, starting from not interrupting and working up to the Navajo pause—a few second wait after the speaker has finished, in case they want to add something—but we didn't get past the "not interrupting" stage. It turns out, being good conversationalists is really hard. Especially in a culture that seems to be doing away with complete thoughts.
January was supposed to be about the art of letter writing, the experiment coming in because we couldn't use electronic media to communicate: no cell phones, no email, no social software, etc. I'm referring to this in the past tense because the experiment was such a complete failure we called it off on the 10th. We may try again, at some point, but for now, we're preparing for tomorrow. And we need a lot of prep work.
February's experiment is to only speak Spanish to each other between the hours of 8am and 8pm. It's an experiment not just because talking in another language can be difficult, but because neither of us speaks Spanish. At all. We got by in Argentina with our half-forgotten, simplified Italian and the occasional Spanish greeting, but neither of us has ever studied the language (and we couldn't "cheat" by studying in January). So, in addition to trying to navigate conversations with family, friends, grocery clerks and what-not in English while remembering to speak Spanish to each other, we also have to learn Spanish. Eeee! I'm so excited!






